My career has involved countless training courses, with their utility varying wildly between the truly beneficial and the utterly pointless. What has become a consistent and peculiar trend, however, is the escalating requirement for mandatory retraining on the entirety of our role. Just two years ago, this mandate required three days away from daily business; now, I find myself committed to a five-day programme.
Tuesday, 14 October 2025
Tuesday, 7 October 2025
SOUL REPLENISHMENT AND A STORMY FAREWELL
aluably, our time here, however finite, proved perfect. The mission of relaxation was a success, only slightly undermined by a foolish, self-inflicted work distraction that slipped past my rule of communication blackout. The week delivered so much joy that the heartache of leaving was hard, as always, but every moment was utterly worth it. The sudden, blustery turn in the weather at the week's close perfectly reflected our feelings, yet with every ending comes the beautiful certainty of another trip—and we are already planning for next year.
Labels:
Aberaeron,
Cei Newydd,
Cymru,
happy place,
Magnus,
New Quay,
storm,
Wales
Tuesday, 30 September 2025
THIRD POSTCARD FROM THE CEI

Labels:
Aberaeron,
car,
Cei Newydd,
Cymru,
happy place,
Magnus,
mental health,
New Quay,
Wales
Friday, 26 September 2025
GOOD NEWS AND A LEAP OF FAITH
arely do I have good news to share. For me, the daily struggle and the mundane routine are the norm, especially this year, which has been a particularly challenging one so far. So to be able to say this gives me immense pleasure...
Last week, my youngest daughter, Rags, passed her driving test!
Last week, my youngest daughter, Rags, passed her driving test!
Tuesday, 16 September 2025
ENGINE LIGHTS TO VIKING FIGHTS
ightmares aren't always about monsters and darkness; sometimes, they're about an engine light flickering on for the fifth time. The last year we spent fighting with our old car felt like an endless cycle of breakdowns and stress, leaving me with a sense of dread that just won't go away. It’s seriously impacted my mental health, and it’s made me wonder: can you get PTSD from a faulty car? On the positive side, I've had more days off from work now, and I even had a great day out last weekend.
Sunday, 14 September 2025
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Saturday, 30 August 2025
PATRIOTS AND FLAG SHAGGERS
nlike some, I've never been one to get misty-eyed over a flag. The St George's Cross, the Union Jack, any of them – they just don't stir any deep sense of national pride within me. That isn't to say I'm unpatriotic or a traitor, but the idea of 'my country, right or wrong' has always felt strange. I'm just a bloke who doesn't quite get the whole national pride thing.
Thursday, 14 August 2025
OUR NEW CAR ADVENTURE: FROM FIAT TO THE FUTURE
elivering us to work, school, and taking us on holidays, the car is an undeniable cornerstone of modern life. For me, however, this functional role has always been the extent of its purpose. I've often lampooned those who lavish so much affection on these mechanical steel boxes, a habit born from observing our society's over-reliance on these four-wheeled chariots. It's a peculiar phenomenon to see people treat their cars with more devotion than they show to other people.
Labels:
car,
car ownership,
family,
travel
Location:
Rotherham, UK
Tuesday, 29 July 2025
PENBLWYDD HAPUS MIKE - WELSH LEGEND
enblwydd Hapus to a man who holds a truly unique place in not just our lives, Mike is truly a Welsh legend. He's not just a friend, but family in every sense of the word. It was an absolute honour to be invited to join his nearest and dearest for this special celebration. With our bags unpacked at our familiar caravan park, just a stone's throw from their house, the stage was set. Let the festivities commence!
Saturday, 19 July 2025
END OF AN ERA - TOUR END
our de France isn't just a sporting event; it's arguably the premier annual spectacle in the world, and that's no exaggeration. Its truly monumental global reach is underscored by a reported cumulative television audience of 3.5 billion viewers annually*. This places the Tour as one of the planet's most-watched sporting events, frequently ranked second only to the FIFA World Cup. Each year, the race is broadcast in approximately 190 countries by around 121 different television channels, collectively delivering over 4,700 hours of TV coverage.
Labels:
Le Tour,
pro cycling,
television,
Tour de France
Tuesday, 8 July 2025
THE POWER OF THE PEOPLE
overnments are fundamentally supposed to look after the people they serve. I've previously voiced my profound disappointment in our current Labour government's initial proposals for welfare reforms, seeing them as a wanton attack on the most vulnerable in society.
Labels:
anniversary,
car ownership,
government,
wedding
Location:
Rotherham, UK
Monday, 23 June 2025
CEI NEWYDD: MORE CYMRU AND CARAVANS
t's with a heavy heart that I leave this place, a place so deeply embedded in my soul that a piece of me feels torn away and remains here. I dream of the day I can truly become one with this land that I hold so dear.
What truly enhances the second part of our stay is the delightful fact that we've extended it by an extra two days this time.
What truly enhances the second part of our stay is the delightful fact that we've extended it by an extra two days this time.
Labels:
Aberaeron,
ales of wales,
beach,
Cei Newydd,
Ceredigion,
Cymru,
happy place,
midsummer,
New Quay,
pub,
solstice,
summer,
Wales,
walk
Friday, 20 June 2025
CYMRU, CELTS AND CARAVANS
ei Newydd is my favourite place on the planet. My time here is simply the best; it's where I find my deepest relaxation. And so, the eagerly awaited moment has arrived—it's time to be here again.
This visit is a special one, just Morticia, Magnus, and me.
Labels:
Cei Newydd,
Celtic,
Cymru,
happy place,
history,
New Quay,
Wales
Location:
New Quay, UK
Friday, 30 May 2025
RITUALS AND ROTATIONS

We marked this special milestone with a joyous gathering of family and friends, combining his birthday celebration with his naming ceremony.
Monday, 12 May 2025
CAR DREAD & 8-BIT DREAMS
ust recently, a heavy cloud has hung over me, the weight of my responsibilities pressing down with a relentless force. As I mentioned before, the looming prospect of a significant car repair bill has felt like a constant threat. Well, this week that anxiety finally materialised.
Location:
South Yorkshire, UK
Saturday, 19 April 2025
THE FIVE-YEAR SHIFT
ive years. Five long years. That's how long we've endured a shift pattern designed not for efficiency, not for our well-being, and certainly not for the people we serve, but for one thing: cost-cutting. Remember the promises? The whispers of change? Well, after half a decade of empty air and hollow rumours, a new rota has finally landed on our desks.
And, as with most things in life, it's a mixed bag.
Labels:
car,
car ownership,
New shifts,
Shift pattern,
work,
Work life balance
Saturday, 22 March 2025
Sunday, 16 March 2025
WIGGO WIGGO WIGGO
radley Wiggins is arguably one of the most recognisable sportsmen and pro-cyclists in the UK. A multi-medal winning Olympian and the first britton to win the Tour de France.
Monday, 24 February 2025
JORVIK VIKING FESTIVAL 2025
orvik Viking Festival, Europe's premier Viking event, has become a cherished annual tradition for us. Having attended for the past three years, Morticia and I were excited to delve deeper into the festivities this year with an extended two-night visit.
Saturday, 8 February 2025
THE END OF LIVE CYCLING...
ne thing everyone knows about me is that I love cycling. I'm on my bike most days, and the Grand Tours are a sacred event. The thrill of the race, the beauty of the course, the sheer grit of the riders – it's pure theatre. The Tour de France, a free-to-air treasure in the UK since the 80s, has always been accessible to everyone. But the curtain is about to fall.
Saturday, 25 January 2025
AWKWARDLY SOCIAL
oneliness is a significant and often overlooked challenge in today's society. Many individuals find themselves increasingly isolated, with social interaction primarily occurring through digital devices. While technology offers connectivity, it can't fully replicate the richness of face-to-face human interaction.
However, real-world engagement is essential for our well-being. The disconnect from genuine human contact can leave many feeling ill-equipped to navigate social situations and cope with the demands of interpersonal relationships.
Saturday, 11 January 2025
THE GATE-KEEPERS
ocial media has undeniably become a cornerstone of modern life, offering both significant advantages and potential drawbacks. On the positive side, it facilitates connections between loved ones separated by distance and fosters communities around shared interests. However, the platform also harbours its share of negativity.
Online bullies, known as trolls, inflict emotional distress, while phishers exploit the digital realm to deceive and defraud users. Moreover, the rise of 'gate-keepers' — individuals or entities who attempt to control, manipulate and suppress.
Wednesday, 1 January 2025
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025
appy New Year. 2025 is here, we are a quarter a way through the century. Time is something that rages past and we can't control the speed in which it travels.
So, Yule is almost over for another year and soon "normality" will return.
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